February caught me quite unaware this year, and i have always looked forward to the the first day of that wonderful month, ever since my first experience of the so called Valentine celebration. Its a story i think you don’t want to know or read about, trust me. Time keeps flying and i remembered vividly then what love use to be like, and what it is like for me now. So if you are interested in knowing that part of the story, be my guest and sit tight. I might soon publish it for anyone of you who might be interested in knowing if you say so or comment on what i am about to share here.So stay with me and Happy new month again.

Welcome to the month of love, as most would say. But come to think of it, what would the other months stand for if we decided that February is made for love? What do you show your friends, loved ones, family members, colleagues, team mates, customers, neighbours, strangers and even an ordinary janitor or a city worker in other months of the year? Do you just resolve to show love once in a whole 365 days? Love is God and He is ever consistent in showing us love, 365 days times eternity. That is the kind of love we should show, allow or even share with people around us. But the trick here is that love without God is like love without direction. How can i love if i don’t love the source of love?Then that would make it more so difficult to love in February or any other days of other months.

What am i saying? Am asking by  means of this piece, that should we limit our love drives objectively to just one month a year? Is love not something to be expressed everyday of the year, and 365 days to those we love or know and to whom deserve our love or not? That is my basic point here. Love is limitless and i feel personally that Valentine is not the only day  to show or express love. It should be an everyday event, an every day practice and it is supposed to be shown to all generally irrespective of colour, race, social status, age or background. You should always open up your heart to love others as much as you love yourself. Jesus said ‘Love your neighbour as you love yourself’.



What does love mean today? We have totally deviated from what God originally intended for us and that’s why there is so much hurts and regrets associated with love, as most people see it or can relate it. Love should be pure, patient, holy, encouraging, believing, trusting, sacrificing and humble too. My girlfriend (fiancée) and I have the most perfect definition of what love should be, in book of  1 Corinthians 13. So you might also want to check that out and base the foundation of your love drive on that note.

Finally, Hey my brothers and sister, do you still believe in love? what we need is true, unbiased and healthy love to make the world go on. Love is the fuel that keeps the world working and when it is been limited to just one day, like Valentine day alone, it makes it very cliché like. Am I correct? As long as there is a man in the world who is hungry, sick, lonely or living in fear, he is my responsibility, he is to be shown love to too, and not to just reserve my love to some people alone for valentine’s day. God bless you and keep being that real love and change for our world. Red heart